tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post948242070918962923..comments2023-07-20T09:34:50.161-07:00Comments on Being A Mother Who Knows: We Took the Challenge....Being A Mother Who Knowshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13989126074756517909noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post-80181749438763885952010-08-23T22:17:09.782-07:002010-08-23T22:17:09.782-07:00Last week I attended the temple and was also fasti...Last week I attended the temple and was also fasting - specifically re: my family and their needs and how to do everything I feel I want/need to. I will share with you all the scripture that I was led to and has since become my guiding star if you will (mission statement?):<br /><br />D&C 25:10 (the Lord is speaking to Emma Smith)<br />"And verily I say unto thee that thou shalt lay aside the things of this world, and seek for the things of a better."<br /><br />I think that makes things pretty clear and is so easy to apply to ourselves and our families and so easy to evaluate our decisions and choices and how they help us on our journey to being mothers who know. Thanks for your example and courage Deanna! :)Deanna Householderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06590281787678443743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post-91240574419369776802010-08-22T08:58:04.694-07:002010-08-22T08:58:04.694-07:00We actually just decided to get rid of our cable a...We actually just decided to get rid of our cable and quit paying a bill to have access to something we never use. (We only watch movies on it.) We have tried different things with regard to the t.v. In the beginning, we cut out all t.v. except for Friday Movie Night. But, even then, I felt like my family was still being reeled in by the addiction that is the t.v. So we got rid of movie night. But I have found, that without a plan, while we still don't watch it that often (and by that, I mean only movies and pretty rarely), because we don't have a plan, the kids still watch it more than I'd like them too! And I totally agree that it sits like an idol in our loft. We have talked about having a piece of furniture that has doors to hide it (right now it sits on the floor.) We have already made the decision that when it breaks, we aren't buying a new one...and we'd really love to do what one of our Stake President's did...push it into a cupboard or closet when it's not in use. We just don't have one big enough. Thank you for posting on this and getting the wheels spinning in my head about this! I would honestly LOVE to say "Nope...the t.v.'s not here anymore What can we do with our imaginations?" :0)Raneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17933089494009597880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post-81513042316447604562010-08-21T16:18:18.141-07:002010-08-21T16:18:18.141-07:00Wasn't that an amazing post over at Misfit? I ...Wasn't that an amazing post over at Misfit? I have been aching to rid myself of the TV for a long time now. I never use it, but my husband likes watching movies with the kids. So, no cable but movies. I did take all the video games out at the beginning of the summer and that has been such a wonderful thing. My boys will read or talk to each other or to me or play with their younger sisters. I did let them use them once in a while if all their work was done and their behavior had been examplary, but it's time to put them all away again since school has started. Wish I was home schooling them, but it's not in our cards right now so we try to implement TJEd into our public schooled afterlife!Kassiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00205977107298415198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post-66068729177312378972010-08-21T12:17:12.848-07:002010-08-21T12:17:12.848-07:00We don't own a TV and I love it. We watch con...We don't own a TV and I love it. We watch conference on our lap top. <br /><br />We don't own any lego's. We gave them all to Grandma. I've been wondering why everyone always wants to go to Grandmas :) Oh, yea, she has toys!<br /><br />I love that they are there and they can go to grandmas and eat sugar and play. Luckily we only go to grandma's once a month.<br /><br />I must be the meanest mommy ever, but my children never fight with each other, they read books..finally!, and they play in imaginative ways with each other. <br /><br />Thanks for being another "weird" mommy who I love to read about. It is uplifting to know there are others who are trying hard to make family about God and about each other.buzy beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03656264827437774435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post-67163869764645126672010-08-21T08:17:18.999-07:002010-08-21T08:17:18.999-07:00My children build houses and animals etc using the...My children build houses and animals etc using their imaginiations with their lego. Maybe it is because they are girls and I have tried to buy fairly generic lego sets?<br /><br />Just a random thought...not trying to preach to you or anything...we all make our own decisions for our families. Obviously yours worked for your family. :-)Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12009864099477355686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-113647239568938571.post-8964876863747871932010-08-21T04:46:08.834-07:002010-08-21T04:46:08.834-07:00I think we're still a ways off on this. But g...I think we're still a ways off on this. But good for you!!! I'm trying to move us to one movie a week, on Saturday, and then we'll go from there. I tend to let the TV babysit in the form of an educational movie for the 4-yr-old while I'm trying to get something done with his older brothers. I need to work on that. My kids still rely on external forces to entertain themselves far too often. I liked the thought from your son that before that's all he thought about...sounds like some boys here!<br /><br />Still having the Lego debate with myself. And the Bionicle one. I find them dumping the buckets on the floor ALL THE TIME and it drives me crazy. I might work with my husband to clear out some space in the garage so we can store them outside and make the kids actually go out and get them when they want them, and return them when they're done.crazy4boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11797982222542135378noreply@blogger.com